Stop trying to be "The Man" and learn how to be "A Man"

It's crazy how well you may think you know your “significant other” but in reality you don't know a damn thing about that person. Apparently, it seems you can date or be married to someone for several years and still don't know who the true “them” is, but yet you give your all to make sure they know who the true “you” is.  And if you ask me, I just think that's more then crazy; its scary. So what do when you do when you are in a situation like this? Do you confront the person and tell them you know what they been hiding from you and make them aware of all the lies they told too but never though you knew? Or do you just continue to act clueless to who they really are?  This is something that goes on in many relationships. This is why relationships are being affected, situations like this one. I'm speaking to all the people who are silent. Don't remain silent anymore speak up and if you are in this situation then you need to stop accepting excuses from yourselves, it's time to take control over your life. Gandhi once said, “ you may never know what results come of your actions, but if you do nothing, there will be result”. So speak up. Other reason why relationship are harder now is because conversations became texting, "arguments became phone calls, and feelings became subliminal messages online. Sex is just to easy to get, and the word love is being used out of context, insecurities have became our new way of thinking, jealously is now a habit, trust has been lost long ago, cheating became an accident that is now accepted because you still think you have a good man and keep saying to yourself that he made a mistakes, and now being hurt became natural” lets get our standards in order. Lets actually have a normal relationships and stop settling for a dyfuncational one.  Time is being wasted, and life is way to precious to be spending your life with someone you love but don’t know. Whats so wrong with getting to know the person your in love with, and whats so wrong with sharing your life stories with the love of your life.